Blue Belt Blues: How to Get to Purple

BJJ belts on a wooden rail in a gym: white, blue, purple, brown and black, each more worn than the last

The blue belt blues is the stretch after your first promotion when training stops feeling like progress, and it is the point where most people quietly stop coming. Search the phrase and you will find a hundred articles telling you to push through it.

I did not have them.

I started Brazilian jiu-jitsu in 2017 and had a brown belt by 2023, and when I look back at the blue belt years I cannot find the crisis everyone describes. For a long time I assumed I had just got lucky. I do not think that any more. I think I accidentally removed the thing that causes it.

Why the plateau is real

The feeling people are describing is real. At white belt you are bad at everything, so everything you learn is an improvement you can feel. Someone shows you how to frame and you stop getting flattened. Someone shows you a basic escape and you stop panicking under side control. The line goes up every week because it starts at the floor.

Then the blue belt arrives and the line flattens. You already know the escapes. You already have a guard. The white belts you used to roll with are now the ones you look after, and the purple belts still pass you like you are furniture. Same hours in, much less visible return.

All of that is true. Yet plenty of things in life get boring and we keep doing them anyway. Something else makes people quit.

A judoka in a white gi sitting on the tatami after training, looking down at her hands

What actually makes people quit

Here is what I think happens, from watching the room for years.

Most people keep training in the category of things they decide about. Every week, quietly, they run the calculation: am I going to train tonight. While the progress is obvious the answer is easy, so the calculation is invisible and nobody notices they are making it. When the progress flattens, the same calculation starts producing a different answer.

Then life interrupts, because life always interrupts. An injury. A cold. Two weeks of work that eat the evenings. For someone who is deciding each week, that interruption arrives as a natural stopping point, and the decision that was already getting harder simply stops being made. They just never resumed.

That is the blue belt blues: training is still a decision at the exact moment the decision gets hard.

What I did instead

I gave myself one rule: two to three sessions a week, and never fewer than two, no matter what.

The important part is that two was a floor, a minimum I could always clear. Most advice hands you an ambitious number you will miss, and missing it is what starts the negotiation. A floor low enough that you can always clear it does the opposite — it survives bad weeks, and a rule that survives bad weeks is the only kind that is worth having.

Underneath the rule was something simpler, and it is the part I would actually pass on. I stopped treating training as something I decide about. It became a given, like work. Nobody spends Sunday evening deciding whether to go to work on Monday, and training became the same.

Injuries happened. Illness happened. Periodically I was out. But I always came back, and the reason I came back is that there was nothing to come back to a decision about. Being ill paused it. Ending it was never on the table.

That is the whole method. It is unglamorous: a reclassification.

A grappler's hands tying a well-worn black belt with a red bar over a plain white t-shirt

The same rule, years later: go and be a beginner again

This part happened much later, once I was a brown belt, and I am including it because it is the same idea taken further.

I noticed my top game was the weak half of my jiu-jitsu. Passing was not improving, because I kept quietly playing to my strengths and calling it training. So I walked into a judo club and put on a white belt.

I expected that to be humbling. It turned out to be a pleasure. It felt like opening up something new, like the start of a journey. A lot of that was the coach. The teaching was careful and methodical, the safety was taken seriously, and because of that it was interesting and felt safe. Being a beginner is only miserable when you are in the wrong room.

It also worked, and the thing it improved most was grip fighting. Other people measured it for me: when I came back to jiu-jitsu sessions people started making comments — they could see it in how I moved that I had been doing judo.

In October 2025 I was given my judo brown belt by Cedric Perroud at AP Training Center. Same rank I hold in jiu-jitsu, earned in a fraction of the time, because the second art borrows from the first.

You do not have to take up judo. The general point is that when more of the same has stopped working, change something. Wrestling, judo, no-gi if you only train gi, gi if you only train no-gi. Pick the room by the quality of the coaching.

A worn black belt with a red bar coiled on a traditional tatami mat in an empty dojo

How long is this supposed to take

Longer than you want, and it varies enormously by academy, by how often you train, and by what your coach is looking for. Ask your coach. Nobody can honestly tell you a number, and anyone quoting one is guessing.

The belt is a description of your jiu-jitsu. It arrives when the description stops matching.

What to do this week

Pick your floor. Make it low enough that a bad week cannot break it — two sessions is a good place to start. Then stop deciding. Put it in the same category as work.

If you want to see the progress you cannot feel, write five minutes after each class: the technique, one thing that worked, one thing to fix. Read the first page again in two months. That is the entire reason our Grappler Progress Journal exists.

Nobody gets promoted for the training they meant to do.

The design in this piece is on a shirt, if you want it: the Blue Belt Blues tee.